Hi there,I'm wanting to have a youtube video in the rev slider that is paused by default, and allow the user to play/stop. However when I set it to NOT autoplay, the audio plays and the video doesn't

How can I switch off the audio?
Also when I say that I want to show controls, it shows the play button at the start, but once it's playing there is no pause button

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Cheers,
Kit 
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as far as we know, Slider Revolution plugin does not have such possibility included.
Thanks!