Please send us link to page where you would like to do those changes then because we need to have a look on it as you ask for something what is not included into theme.
website is geetadolly.com , no its included in the theme, i had change color from Theme options > color > action bar > background white and link to pink but its not working.
Ok, we see where the problem is. You use one of pre-defined skins while custom colors works only with DEFAULT skin what was explained under Theme options > Colors > General section just under Theme Skin.
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1. This is widget default padding and you can remove it with the following css: 2. Do you mean menu or Action Bar? Because if you mean the top bar where menu and the logo is, its already white.